Vacuum

You live with someone who is close to you, for example brother/sister/husband/wife/mother/father/friend etc., and you lose that person due to sudden turn of events.
What really hurts you at that point of time ?
I think you are enraged by the fact that you won't have that person with you anymore to confide all your thoughts. I think that's where it hurts you most. I think what we long for, is a person to confide and when that person is no more, the vacuum that's created really hits you hard.

Now what do you do, having reached a situation as this ?
Guess the inevitable way out is :
a. mourn the lost person for a while
b. soon, find a way to fill the vacuum through some other activity say sports/music/movie/another person etc.,

End of the day, I trust the solution to this problem is to just fill the vacuum.